I meant to continue this post on managing family food money a while ago, but we had a lot going on around the 4th of July, so I apologize for taking so long. Continuing where I left off, I was talking about our self-inflicted/self-taught budgeting “education.”
It seemed that we were very slow learners. Although I don’t really have anything to compare to, I remember the process of learning how to manage our budget was painful. The first lesson that I learned was about communication. First and foremost, there should be some! Imagine trying to climb that mountain while just assuming those around you know what you are thinking and will act accordingly. No discussing, no planning, no budgeting = no success. One area in which I feel we went very wrong was that we ignored talking about finances in general early in our relationship. We didn’t avoid the subject, we just never paid any attention to budgeting in our conversations and it left a huge hole to fill.

Also needless to say, this was a VERY ineffective and inefficient method for trying to manage our grocery budget. The next several years were a financial adventure for us, to say the least. By adventure I mean something like showing up to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro in shorts, sandals and one of those silk hawaiian shirts that you can only get away with if you’re actually IN hawaii or your back yard for a BBQ and you don’t mind looking silly. Well I did what any ill-prepared, inexperienced and under-dressed mountain climber would do: I looked around to see what everyone else was doing.